Thursday, December 8, 2022

Homily for the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception December 8, 2022

Introduction

In his article “The Beauty of the Virgin Mary and the History of Art,” Theo Howard claims that, other than Our Lord, “there has been no more frequent subject in Western figurative art than the Blessed Virgin Mary.”[1]

Why is Mary’s image sculpted, painted, and drawn more than just about any subject in world history?

Is it because she is the Mother of God? Possibly. Is it because she is the greatest of all God’s creatures and the most important among all the saints? That’s also possible.

I may be wrong, but I think it is for another reason. I think the reason Our Lady is so often an object of art is because no one has been able to capture her beauty! They keep trying and trying but never get it just right. So, they try again and again and again.

When St. Bernadette was shown a beautiful statue of the Blessed Mother and asked what she, a someone who had a vision of Mary, thought of the work of art, Bernadette responded, “Oh, it doesn’t look like her at all!”

What is the source of Mary’s beauty and why does it matter to us?

What is beauty?

Let’s begin by asking the question, “What is beauty?”

There is a famous Mount professor with a double first name and Italian last name who wrote a book on beauty. He explains that beauty “expresses God’s intelligence and freedom.”

Allow me to re-phrase that definition using the Gospel for today: “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord.” Here we see God’s freedom active in His creature. God freely offers divine motherhood and leaves it to the freedom of His creature to say yes.

The Virgin of Nazareth concludes her response: “May it be done to me according to your word.” Here we see Divine Intelligence, God’s Word, becoming flesh.

On this feast of the Immaculate Conception, we see human beauty at its zenith – we contemplate, celebrate, rejoice in the person of Our Blessed Mother who is most beautiful.

Tota Pulchra

As you may know, there is an ancient title of Our Lady “tota pulchra” or “all beautiful.” Since the 10th Century there has been a special Mass of the Blessed Mother called “Mother of Fairest Love,” which honors Mary as “tota pulchra.”

The instruction for this Mass says that the Church, both East and West, “contemplates with joy her spiritual beauty. Beauty is the radiance of the holiness and truth of God, ‘the origin of all beauty’, and it is the image of the goodness and fidelity of Christ, ‘fairest of all God’s children on earth’.”

Our Blessed Mother is “fair” or “beautiful” because in her there is no flaw of sin or corruption. “From the first moment of her conception,” the Catechism says, “by a singular grace” she was “preserved immune from all stain of original sin.” She fulfills to a perfect degree the words of St. Paul in our Second Reading, “blessed… with every spiritual blessing to be holy and without blemish before him.”

The grace of the Immaculate Conception means that Mary is “tota pulchra” or “Mother of Fairest Love.”

The Beauty of Full of Grace

Mary is called beautiful for several reasons. She is beautiful because she is full of grace, as we heard her called in the Gospel. This means that she is resplendent with the glory of her Son and the beauty of Christified holiness. The Preface to the Mass of “Mary, Mother of Fairest Love” says, “Beauty was hers at her conception: free from all stain of sin, she is resplendent in the glory of grace.”

Beauty and ugliness, you see, are fundamentally spiritual realities. As one author puts it, “If beauty manifests the perfection and splendor of something, ugliness distorts it, corrupting what it is meant to be and blinding us to its true reality.”

We hear in our First Reading from the Book of Genesis just how God’s beauty of man and woman and creation is distorted by the ugliness of sin. Disobedience distorts the loving gaze that Adam and Eve had toward each other in their nakedness. The serpent now has to crawl and eat dirt.

A flower crumpled and crushed. A stained-glass window dirty and broken. The Philadelphia Eagles losing to the Dallas Cowboys. They are all ugly because they are not what God meant them to be.

Holiness, on the other hand, is beautiful. Mary is beautiful because she is “full of grace.” She is the new Eve, who reverses the disobedience and fear of Genesis and offers herself as His “handmaid” to the Word of God. She is what God meant all of us to be.

Our world needs to know Mary so that it can seek holiness above all, so that “live significantly” is understood as “live holiness.”

The Beauty of Love

Mary is also beautiful because she loves God, her Son, and loves the entire human race as her children with a love that is full of beauty; that is, a love that is virginal, bridal, and maternal.

Love, as you know, is the fundamental vocation for all men and women.

St. Paul tells the Ephesians in our Second Reading that “in love he destined us for adoption to himself through Jesus Christ.” God has created us out of love and for love. It is our common and most important vocation. In loving, human being are perfected. We become beautiful.

Our Lady is stunningly beautiful. She knows how to love as Christ taught and shows us this more than anyone else.

Love has so many counterfeit images in the world today and we struggle to deal with them. We have the plague of pornography and the scourge lust. We see the failure of commitment to marriage and to the celibate priesthood.

God wants us to be truly ourselves, truly creatures capable of loving and being loved. Unchastity is ugly. Chaste love is beautiful.

Our world needs to know Mary so that it can know how to truly love.

Fairest Love and Evangelization

Is there a concrete application for the beauty of Mary, Our Mother? Yes – for evangelization.

Many people today claim to be spiritual but not religious. They have faith, but in a secular “gospel,” if you will, that answers their need to be authentic and to define themself and their lives as they see fit. They are satisfied with the comfort they experience and the good feelings they achieve by a certain altruism to those in need. As one author puts it, people aren’t just “walking away from faith,” they are “opting for a way of life that they found more attractive.”

Evangelization cannot bear much fruit in this secularized world by condemnations and purely intellectual arguments. We need to introduce the beauty of the Catholic faith and make it more attractive – the beauty of our beliefs, the beauty of our liturgy, the beauty of our lives.

Pope Emeritus Benedict puts in succinctly, “I have often affirmed my conviction that the true apologia of Christian faith, the most convincing demonstration of its truth against every denial, are the saints, and the beauty that the faith has generated. Today, for faith to grow, we must lead ourselves and the persons we meet to encounter the saints and to enter into contact with the Beautiful.”[2]

We call Mary the “Star of Evangelization” because of the way she brings people to Christ. I would propose that the more we introduce others to her beauty, her holiness, the way she loves, the more people will see just how she is “Mother of Fairest Love.” People will be surprised by her beauty and respond to her attractiveness by coming to faith in Christ.

Conclusion

At a Gala raising money for a good cause, an elegant woman served as the MC. She was stunning in her manners and dress. All eyes were on her throughout the evening. At the end of the evening, a little girl went up to a table and asked those seated whether they thought the woman was beautiful. They all answer, “Why, yes, of course.” The little girl replied with satisfied pride in her eyes, grinning from ear to ear, “She is my mom!”

And we can feel today just like that child. As we contemplate the Immaculate Conception, we contemplate the one who is full of grace in the beauty of holiness, the one who loves God and her children most beautifully. She is God’s supreme masterpiece. She is most beautiful, and she is our mom.

Mother of Fairest Love and the Immaculate Conception, pray for us!



[1] Howard, Theo, “The Beauty of the Virgin Mary and the History of Art,” November 25, 2021, One Peter 5, https://onepeterfive.com/the-beauty-of-the-virgin-mary-and-the-history-of-art/

[2] Joseph Ratzinger, “The Feeling of Things, the Contemplation of Beauty” (August 24, 2002).

Saturday, March 19, 2022

Homily for the Solemnity of St. Joseph, March 19, 2022

Solemnity of St. Joseph

Matthew 1: 16, 18-21, 24

Introduction

I want to extend a word of deep gratitude to the Daughter of Charity and the wonderful staff here at the National Shrine of Elizabeth Ann Seton.

We are here not only to honor the patron of the Universal Church on his feast day but also to remember our predecessors. In the great fire of March 20, 1885 on the campus of St. Joseph College, Mount faculty, seminarians, and college seniors acted with the courage of St. Joseph and came running the 2 miles from the Mount to fight back the flames of destruction. Since that time, seminarians have come to celebrate the feast day of St. Joseph with the Daughters of Charity to solidify our spiritual bonds, to remember our predecessors’ courage and commitment, and to ask St. Joseph to help us live in the same way.

St. Joseph is the earthly father of Jesus.

The instructions from the angel to Joseph in today’s Gospel could not be clearer: “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her. She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

In ancient times the name of the person was a compendium of a person’s identity and mission. “Yeshua” means “one who delivers, one who rescues, one who saves.”

Giving a name to someone was the role of the father. It was a way in which the father bestows identity on the child and publicly professes his fatherhood, promising to fulfill his responsibility to care for that child.

In Joseph’s case, he names the child Jesus, not a name originating from Joseph but a name given to Him by the child’s true Father – God. In doing so, Joseph recognizes that God is the true father and yet he, Joseph, has the responsibility on earth to be the child’s earthly father in caring for him.

So, what does St. Joseph tell us about being a good father?

Crisis in Fatherhood

There is a crisis in fatherhood today. Many are left physically, emotionally, and even spiritually orphan. The 2020 US census says that 1 in 4 children, live without a biological, step, or adoptive father in the home. Research shows that a child raised in father-absent home has significant higher risk of many societal problems.

On the other hand, a Swiss study (1994) showed that when a dad attended church regularly along with his wife, 33% of the children ended up attending church regularly as adults. When the dad was non-practicing, but the mother went to church regularly, only 2% of the children ended up going to Church. Such a huge change with only one difference – dad was going to Church.

What kind of a father is needed today?

Our world needs fathers like St. Joseph. I would like to briefly point out three ways a man, especially a future priest, can be a good father in the line of St. Joseph.

We need fathers today who are present NOT absent.

Sometimes people say, “Father is always busy. Don’t bother him.” Or “When I’m with him, he’s always looking at his watch or smart phone.” Or, “I never see him around except when he is required to be somewhere.”

Priests have many responsibilities and duties. A pastor may be caring for more than one parish. His time is limited, that’s for sure. But he needs to cut back on his busyness and be present for his spiritual children.

His availability for confession, his presence before and after Mass, his attendance at social events, visiting the sick and homebound, all assure his flock that God is present. It is impossible to be present for everything and for everyone. But children need to know that their father will be present, especially in time of need.

In a real way we could call the priest the “presence of the fatherhood of God.”

Secondly, we need fathers of mercy NOT of severity.

When a father is too demanding and never satisfied with his children, the situation tends to crush and discourage them. As Jesus tells us in the Gospel of Matthew, “They tie up heavy burden [hard to carry] and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they will not lift a finger to move them” (23:4).

In preaching and teaching, a priest’s words need to reflect the truth but avoid making the good news a heavy burden. Our words should ultimately encourage, not discourage. Preaching the Gospel should no doubt challenge its hearers but also provide hope.

In the confessional a spiritual father acts as an agent of Divine Mercy not as a blunt instrument of condemnation. Good fathers know the proper balance of teaching a lesson without demoralizing the soul.

St. Joseph imposes the name of “savior” on his adopted son, for “he will save his people from their sins.” A priest’s fatherhood is about salvation not condemnation. It is about mercy not severity.

Finally, fatherhood should be exercised with humility NOT with power.

What do I mean?

Power is the exercise of the imposition of one’s will that is raw and forceful. It is not service but domination. For a priest to exercise his fatherhood with this kind of power, he falls into the sin of clericalism. He feels superior and even distant from his people. It is no way to be a father.

Fr. Jacques Philippe observes that sometimes the drive for recognition seeks satisfaction through ambition and “an expansion of me.”[1]

This ambitious drive for power is polar opposite to the humble life of St. Joseph. He was a “righteous” man willing to be accused of abandoning his betrothed rather than expose her to the punishment of the Law. He quickly and quietly obeys the instruction of the angel.

A priest is father not in how he can lord over others but in how he can serve others. He looks for the needs of others and tries to fulfill them without pomp or drama. He visits the sick in the hospital, finds time to speak to a worried grandmother, organizes a special holy hour for young adults, and is not disturbed when someone asks him to hear a confession after Mass.

He is humble.

How to become a spiritual father

How can someone become a good father? Be a son first.

St. Joseph was first a child of God, receptive to his vocation and obedient to God’s command.

Sonship means spending time with Our Father in heaven, recognizing that we receive everything from the Father, our identity and our whole life. This, of course, means spending time in prayer to live and deepen one’s sonship. A good father always prays because a good father knows he is a son who depends completely on his heavenly father.

Pope Emeritus Benedict puts it this way: “A fundamental priority of priestly life is being with the Lord, and thus having time for prayer. St. Charles Borromeo always said: ‘I couldn’t care for the souls of others if I let my own waste away.”[2]

How can someone become a good father? Be a groom

On the natural level, a man needs a woman to be a father. God’s plan for marriage is that man and woman enter into a covenant for life and then have children, thus making them a father and a mother.

For a priest, he too cannot become a father without the grace of a spouse, and that spouse is the Church.

Too often “being a churchman” is looked upon disparagingly. Yet, the Church is our bride and, as the Mount Mission Statement says, we ought to love with the heart of the Church and think with the mind of the Church.

We must love our bride as a groom does. We must be willing to sacrifice our life for the portion of the People of God entrusted to our care. This is the best way we can be a groom and thus father for the Church.

Being a son and being a groom are the antecedents to true, good, and lasting fatherhood.

There is a story I once read about a Spanish father and son who had become estranged. The son ran away from home and the father set out to find him. He searched for months to no avail. Finally, in a last, desperate effort to find his son, the father put an ad in a Madrid newspaper. The ad read: “Dear Paco, meet me in front of this newspaper office at noon on Saturday. All is forgiven. I love you. Your Father.” That Saturday 800 men by the name of “Paco” showed up, looking for forgiveness and love from their fathers.

The world needs holy fathers. St. Joseph, help priests and future priests to be good spiritual fathers. May our lives be an imitation of yours and a living icon of Our Father, who is in heaven. St. Joseph, pray for us.



[1] Philippe, Jacques, Priestly Fatherhood, New York, Scepter, 2021, p. 45

[2] Pope Benedict XVI, Meeting with Priests of the Diocese of Bolzano-Bressanone, August 6, 2008